Wednesday, July 20, 2016

Manus x Machina - Fashion in the Age of Technology

Manus x Machina
Fashion in the Age of Technology

Looking for something to do this summer in NYC? Check out The Met and their new exhibits. One in particular that I would like to mention is the fashion exhibit. Manus x Machina - Fashion in the Age of Technology. It was absolutely BREATHTAKING. Fashion is my passion (obviously) and literally the pieces displayed is every girls dream. You see designs from top designers in the world and their take on the theme. Some were hand sewn, hand made while others were 3D PRINTED!? like whoa~~

The exhibit was a lot bigger than I imagined it to be and even better than I expected. The exhibit is two floors and halls and halls of just pure bliss and awe. I really can't say enough about this exhibit except you should definitely take a look. 

Here's a sneak peak and a few of my favorites. I hope this encourages you to go because these pictures really don't do justice. You really have to be there to see every detail at every angle to really see the amazingness of each design.










NOW through August 17


xoxo

Sunday, July 17, 2016

Summer 2016 Skincare Products



Hello ladies!!!!!
SKINCARE SKINCARE SKINCARE! Here are my favorite skincare products on rotation at the moment and I am seeing RESULTS! Click the video above or read my review below for the full details but I highly recommend these! 




  • Farmacy
    • "INVINCIBLE Root Cell Anti-Aging Serum (0.27 fl. oz | 8 ml): This serum has been clinically proven to improve the skin’s natural hydration and reduce the appearance of surface lines and wrinkles, while also firming and smoothing. It helps restore the skin’s overall radiance, promotes an even skin tone and healthy glow."
      • AMAZING! Very watery so a little big goes a long way. Pea size can probably cover half your face. 
    • "SLEEP TIGHT Firming Night Balm (0.5 fl. oz | 15 ml): Reinforcing the skin’s natural moisture content, this balm aids firmness and tone while helping to restore elasticity and reduce the appearance of fine lines and wrinkles."
      • MEH~ This wasn't my favorite because the balm consistency. It was too oily for me - it felt very heavy on the skin. This shouldn't be too big of an issues because you apply it at night but for me personally, it wasn't my cup of tea. I like that fresh clean feeling you get which I experienced from the other three products. 
    • "NEW DAY Gentle Exfoliating Grains (1.4 oz. | 40 g): A potent, all-inclusive skincare treatment, the grains cleanse, exfoliate and clarify in one step for fresh, clear skin."
      • AMAZING! CRAZY TO ME THAT IT WORKS. The product is very gentle to the skin and you barely notice it. This is what makes it perfect for sensitive skin. The smell is a little bit on the oatmeal milk maybe even a little nutty side (hard to describe) but isn't too strong. You will be amazed on how well it works. 
    • "RISE ‘N SHINE Daily Moisture Lock (o.5 fl. oz. | 15 ml): This lightweight day cream soothes the skin, helps reduce the appearance of fine lines and wrinkles, and delivers a renewed sense of firmness and elasticity."
      • PRETTY GOOD. This locks in the moisture very well which also makes me believe the serum you put on underneath is sinking into her skin throughout the day. 

  • First Aid Beauty
    • It does what it claims. INTENSE HYDRATION. The product itself is pretty thick and feels thick in the beginning but it goes away after a few minutes. Does not leave any oily residues.


  • Shiseido IBUKI refining moisturizer
    • Very moisturizing. Using this along with the clinque or estee lauder serum really help clear a lot of my redness and blemishes. I've gotten compliments and if you had my skin growing up this is a skicare revelation.
  • Mario Badescu drying lotion
    • WORKS! You look crazy for a couple hours but it is worth the crazy. Make sure you don't shake the product, just get a Q-tip and dip it straight into the bottle until you reach the pink goopy part and then apply. It may sting a little and the smell is kind of punches you in the face so don't inhale it too much. 


xoxo


Wednesday, July 13, 2016

Maximalist turn minimal

Top of my shelf - i call it the girly zone


Photo from : Homey Oh My
Such a pretty blog about "homey" things :)

Minimalism seems to be a trend lately and just visually, it seems very calming. It is a look that I am in love with, however, converting is quite harder than I thought. I am a Hoarder. First step is to admit it right? I have A LOT OF STUFF and I love A LOT OF STUFF; I just keep buying more without realizing. So I want to share a few tips that I used to "declutter" my life.



My reasoning for "hoarding" and so far my "Solutions"
  • Sentimental value
    • #1 issue of hoarding in my opinion is sentimental value. If an object has sentimental value, it's just hard to let go even if it is completely useless - like a ticket stub or a cute gift box. 
    • Solutions: So far I went through this box I have of letters, cards, notes, anything handwritten that I kept since middle school and girl that was a LONG time ago for me. I got rid of maybe 1/8 before I gave up because there was just TOO MANY. Yes I have a problem. 
  • Collecting:
    • #2 issue is being a collector. Collector of makeup, toys, dolls, jewelry, etc. I LOVE collecting things for some reason because again, I love stuff (I sound so materialistic... maybe). I have a Hello Kitty collection, I have a vintage camera collection, sunglasses collection, like no joke. 
    • Solutions: I haven't found a solution for this besides the fact that I just have to stop. Maybe only purchasing very key unique pieces that you probably won't be able to get just anywhere. 
  • "oh~ I can use it later" - just to it to the side
    • Especially when it comes to clothes, I probably hoard this area the most. Fashion always comes and goes so I always keep a few (or a lot) of pieces that might come back into fashion. 
    • Solution: I sell clothing in good condition so at least I can get some money back and if the style comes back later, I have the funds to repurchase. Check out my selling app reviews here.
  • They are called 'exes' for a reason (this may only apply to those bad breakups)
    • Some of the gifts and things you get from your exes are really nice things, like that LV purse or tiffany jewelry so it's a little bit of a waste to just toss it or it's just too pretty. right?
    • Solution: Just let it go. I agree some of the things that I have received are very nice items and useable, but it reminds you of your ex, girl you gotta let it go. You don't need that constant reminders girl. & if you are not affected by it, then more power to you girl! Throw it out, or if you want to make a profit - sell it! 
Even though I did clear out A LOT in my room, it still seems like I have a lot of stuff. But I realized, I felt good after each small cleanse. Because of this small progress I want to continue to try to let go of things and be a semi-minimalist. I say "semi" because I can't commit to it 100% like those people that literally have two things in their rooms. I love shopping so that can't physically happen, however it's definitely a lifestyle that I want to incorporate. My goal is to continue to pursue this path until one day my room looks like the two pictures above. I bought that book about tidying up your life by that Japanese author and really want to commit to "letting unnecessary things go."  Plus after all this it'll save you A LOT of money.



xoxo

Sunday, July 10, 2016

I am not G "the pharmacist"

I am not G "the pharmacist"

Yes, that is my profession, but that is not what I want to be defined by. When I tell people that I am a "pharmacist" I get a lot of o0o0o's and ahhhh's. As good as it may sound, the admiration for my accomplishment of 6 years of school and achievement of a doctor of pharmacy degree means nothing to me but a profession; a source of income. A trade that will allow me to get higher in the food chain.

I don't want to be defined by this. I start to become target for suitors who want a high income wife. I start glowing in the eyes of parents who want something great for their sons. But that's what they only see. They don't see beyond the hard earned degree.

I want to be defined by what I love. I want to defined by what I am passionate about. I want to be defined by my undying faith, I want to be defined by my Father in Heaven. Although the last two are a definite, it is still a journey to find out what I love and what I am passionate about. I feel as though I love a lot of things, and enjoy doing a lot of things - and because of this I can never excel. I dab a little here and there but never fully commit to one thing. At first I thought blogging would be that one thing, but I realize I get so easily discouraged by the struggles and hardships it comes with that I start to lose motivation. I am starting to look elsewhere and for something else. Why can't I find that one thing I love? Is there an award for "one who has tried it all?" Is there a category of passion for all things? I doubt it. Maybe it's the commitment issue that I struggle with? Or is it just the workload? I'm not entirely sure. But I hope you can join me on my journey of my search.

I don't want to be defined as a pharmacist, I want to be defined as __________.

(Fill in the blank)
rhetorically...



**this is slight satirical and slightly true so don't take it too seriously. A little creative writing. ** 

Monday, July 4, 2016

Roses are red, wrinkles give you the blues, I need more moisture in myskin, how about you?



"Roses" seem to be showering us with it's presence all over the place. As skeptical I may have been, I didn't see the significance of roses being a key ingredient in these products. But my views have changed.

As soft as a rose petal feels, these products will make your skin silky smooth.

Valentia - Royal Rose Hydrating Serum




This is a very light weight serum that doesn't leave any thick residue behind. Great for right under your make up. After application, my skin felt more hydrated and supple. The scent is exactly like the name. It smells like roses. Scent isn't too strong that you'll pass out from the fumes but just be aware that there is a scent to it that some people may not enjoy. 

Mario Badescu - 

I have started to like these spray toners and mists. Easy to apply and less product waste. This was the first product I tried from Mario Badescu and I have high hope for the other products as well. 

I apply this mist right when I get out of the shower when my pores are still "open" from the heat and my  face is still damp. I spray it on my face and just let it soak into my skin. Now I feel fresh and clean with the hint of rose scent. This leaves my skin soft and ready for the rest of my skincare routine.

The scent is not to strong so people with sensitive noses will not complain about this product. However, do not open your mouth right after application because the residual mist may still be in the air and you will taste it. I say this through experience guys :p

Apparently you can use this over your make up as well. I haven't tested that out yet but seems promising. I have a similar product from a different brand that I do use over my make up when I see those unwanted dry patches and it fixes it right up. I hoping this one does it.


Fresh rose face mask


I received this as the birthday gift from sephora and I'm on the fence. Just because I already found a more affordable alternative that seems to do pretty much the same thing. This particular mask though has real rose petals inside. 
The gel like consistency allows your skin to breath while it is slowly hydrating and rejuvenating your skin. The mask is so thing that after application you sort of forget that the mask is even on. It feels like a serum. It dries pretty quick but you will feel the slight sticky feeling on your face. 
When you wash the mask off you feel your hands gliding off your face because it's so silky and smooth (I am talking about the mask itself). But afterwards, your face is smooth and feel hydrated. Put on your favorite serum afterwards and you can call it a night.

The scent may be a little to strong for those with sensitive noses. The mask smells almost identical to a real rose with a hint of cucumber. Seems very bizarre but to me personally that is what it smells like. Check it out at your local sephora give it a smell before you purchase it.







InstaNatural - Rose Hydration face mask

This is very similar to the fresh rose face mask but more affordable and this mask has no flakes. The gel like consistency, smell, and application are all very similar to the Fresh rose mask.

Pretty much the same product in my opinion. The consistency, the color, the smell, even the application and wait time. If I were given a blind test, I wouldn't be able to tell this one and Fresh's rose mask apart. The outcome of this is very hydrating as well without the residue leftover feeling.

This company is known for it's organic products so if you're looking for all natural ingredients for a really affordable price, check them out!

The scent for this is pretty strong as well so caution is advised for those with sensitive sense of smell.





xoxo



Monday, June 27, 2016

thegracerysh0p's golden online shopping recommendations



How to use guide:
  • I have broken down the websites into categories 
  • I listed key things that may be helpful when shopping on this website.
  • The less I write most likely means there's not many negative things to say so I will only touch on the key positives
  • I have made this guide through my own experiences.
    • So I have used and shopped at all these websites.
  • This guide will always be evolving and increasing so check back for more updates!






Monday, June 20, 2016

Back to the BASICS

Back to the basics
[shopping tip 1. 0]

Basic pieces are smart investments to your closets. Basics can tone down a crazy print or enhance a classic look. They are also versatile and just... classic [deja-vu]. Basics will save you a good amount of money when it comes to shopping - which may help with a minimal lifestyle. Basics definitely are a must-have because they are so versatile.

My definition of basics might not be the same as others. The "basics" that I will be covering today are pieces that I believe will go with anything in your wardrobe. Basics you can really incorporate in any outfit and any style. A good quality basic can last you for awhile. This will give you endless possibilities. 

Of course everything has to be monochrome in color
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What pieces to invest on:


Neutral tone Trench Coat: This is very versatile piece that can but dressed up or down. [Using the versatile word again? yea, it's in the "basic's" definition] Just add one on top of any outfit and walk out the door. It'll give you that classy Audrey Hepburn look. I actually currently don't have one at the moment except maybe a winter one, so it's an investment I am searching quite carefully for. 



Chambray button down: This maybe applies to as a basic but with a slight twist. As a typical pair of blue jeans goes with everything, so will this chambray button down will too. Again this piece you can dress up or down depending on the occasion. Style it up with some statement pieces and you're ready for a date out or pair it with some leggings and you're ready for any errands and such.


Back at it again with the chambray shirt; see versatile! 

White T -shirt: This was a classic pieces then, this is a classic piece now, this will be a classic piece forever. Until the day we start wearing space suits and futuristic clothing, this will always be a classic piece. It's so plain and the ultimate versatile piece; more than anything other pieces that will be mentioned. This can be worn in the winter, in the summer, spring AND fall. Layered, alone, and everything in between. 



Black Leather Jacket: An awesome leather jacket. This may differ from person to person but I really think a leather jacket is a key piece. It'll give you a bit of edge to any outfit and it's a classic look. I guess it depends on your style but with any style: girly, tomboy, grunge, hipster - a leather jacket can really spice up an outfit.

Photo by @bettyslook

Blue Jeans: Obviously this is no brainer. This is a universal classic piece. Having a few different shades of blue can be mixed and matched with any top 




Blue Jean jacket: I'm starting to see a trend here. Yes denim jacket as well. Same reasoning as blue denim jeans and the chambray shirt. It'll go with everything and anything. No brainer.


The Ultimate tip: Make sure your investments are good quality. Does not necessarily have to be expensive but a good quality item for anything will last you longer & is cost effective!


Shop the look




"Fly me to the moon to shop but bring me back to earth to flaunt it" - Me
xoxo




Monday, June 13, 2016

Selling App UPDATED [POSHMARK, MERCARI, DEPOP, VINTED]

Poshmark, Vinted, Mercari, Depop updates


I previously wrote a post about three selling apps that I started to use at the time [can find the link here] - now I am back with an update! A lot has changed since I started using these apps (it's been like a year) and I found new apps as well so here is my UPDATED review on each app. I will only touch up on updates and things that have changed since the last post and also things I've learned the past year using these so for more information - go to the link I provided above to read the older post for basic details.


Poshmark

I have had my best luck in sales with this one. I am not sure if it is just because it has been around for awhile and more people know about it or it is just have I gravitate more towards this one because my 'closet' for my other apps don't get much volume coming in - not sure but Poshmark has been my go to for majority of my sales.

Changes:
  • SHIPPING PRICE
    • I noticed the shipping price did increase since the first post. Now it's the normal cheapest 'flat rate' USPS shipping price of $5.95 which inclines people to negotiate more on the prices.
    • I actually don't see anywhere saying that there is that "free shipping on prices over $500" anymore so it may be gone?
  • WARNINGs
    • I've been "warned" twice because PEOPLE  CAN'T READ all the descriptions and claim that I falsely advertised. And it's been awhile since I got those warnings and it hasn't gone away. So the "warnings" you get kind of just stays with you on your 'Closet stats." #buzzkill
  • SELLING ANYTHING 
    • I know last time I said you can sell "ANYTHING" but now it's more "acceptable." There are more categories  of listing you can make while back then, technically it was only suppose to be clothing... oops.
    • Of course the same rules apply. No used make up, no used undergarments. Common sense right?
  • Wholesale portal
    • there's a wholesale portal area where you buy things in bulk from sellers to sell in your own shops
      • go to "retail tools" --> "wholesale portal"
      • You must be "retail certified" by poshmark
  • Discount on bundles
    • Seller can put discounts on their closet for bundles!
    • This helps minimize shipping cost and lure in customers
  • Bundles in general
    • you can put listings from the same shop into bundles & purchase the bundle!
    • usually it'll be discounted if the seller sets up a discount price
  • Green $ button
    • There is green $ on the right corner that manages your earnings!
    • A great shortcut than before!
Here's a few poshmark closets I enjoy

Vinted

Having been using this much lately. I don't sell much or buy from this app.
Has forums that you can communicate and grow a community and network.

Changes:
  • VIDEO LISTINGS! Like whoa!
  • Layout has gotten a lot prettier
    • Added sections
      • trending: Shows what's in style and they show you items of people that are trending at the moment. 
      • my feed: look at only the brands and closets you "follow"
      • browse: literally what it means haha
  • Can meet up instead of shipping if you're in the same area
    • be careful though~
  • You can delete comments on the listing without a trace. For me it only works on my computer, not via iphone
    • Not sure if this is a change but I don't think I listed it before in my previous post



Depop

I have sold only one thing through this app but I have purchased a lot of vintage cameras! This is my go to website for old cameras.
  • I still like this one because you can choose your own shipping price. They also use paypal so no credit information needed!
  • Not much seemed to have changed
Few Vinted closets I enjoy

  • heyclaire
  • songofstyle
  • eggcanvas
  • coolvintagecameras
    • ^ my go to guy for vintage cameras









Mercari

This is the newest one I have so far and only really use it if someone wants discounted price on a listing of other apps I re-list it here because Mercari has NO SELLING FEE!

Here's my pros & cons

Pros
  • No selling fee - like YASSSS!
    • I believe it's still in it's beta phase so no selling fee - go crazy
    • You can pick a set shipping method/price OR ship it on your own!
  • You can delete comments
  • Vast amount of categories you can sell like VAST
Cons
  • For some reason - compared to the other platforms, this is the most complicated to use in my opinion. I do not like how it's kind of complicated to use - I rephrase, it's not as simple to use as the other apps. You need to go within a link within a link (yes x2) to find a sections which sometimes doesn't even relate.
  • No Stock photos
  • You can delete comments, but it'll leave a section saying "comment deleted by seller"
    • If you're OCD like me, that's annoying :p
  • This too has no "private message" section - everything is public.


Helpful hints update:
  • Beware of scammers - not only just people who take your money and run but scam listings. A lot of the things I bought from certain people were not as described and just subpar. Unless it's brand new with tag, don't expect the best of the best condition. 
  • Ask ask ask a lot of questions - I believe I said this before but ask questions before purchasing. However, don't be annoying and then not purchase. Ask questions with the intention of buying. Please don't waste people's time.
  • Be nice - I know sometimes you call people out on their price because it is ridiculous, but maybe they have a reason of the overprice. And, to be honest, overpriced listings won't attract people and nobody will buy it. No need to state the obvious and post on their listing and be completely mean about it. It's just petty :p Just say 'nuh uh' and move on with your day. 
  • Aesthetically pleasing pictures definitely attract buyers. You're selling stuff so you really got to SELL IT to the customers. 
  • List the item a little higher (but at a reasonable price still) - gives more wiggle room to negotiate as well as if you gain interest from people and they like or heart your listing, when you decrease the price they are notified and it'll spark interest. 

Benefit of having more apps is probably the exposure. You have more variety of people and just more access to different people. This may be good, but it is also a hassle keeping up with all 4 apps. But in the end it's entirely up to you to choose which apps to use.

Shopping wise - I think they're all pretty great besides the cost of shipping on certain apps.
HAPPY SHOPPING/SELLING!



xoxo



**disclaimer: I am not sponsored for this review. I don't know 100% logistics of each app so try it out for yourself or read the FAQs on each app/website!**








Saturday, June 11, 2016

Charcoal in my hair? No way, Can't be, Can it? [Shampoo/condition/mask Review]



The 'her/she' persona played by my hair

Shampoo: her many suitors

Let me introduce you to my hair. She has been dyed many many times. She is thick and coarse; the typical asian hair. She hates long walks on the beach because then it makes her dry and weird. Lately she's been more on the dryer side (usually she's very oily) so she is very particular in the shampoos she dates. 

Now these products from "HASK Charcoal Purifying Hair Care Collection" did not impress her to the optimum level. They were very ordinary and didn't affect her in any way. The hair care set gave her slight butterflies in her stomach with their scent, but other than that, they were like any other shampoos she's swiped right for. Maybe she hasn't given them a chance long enough to really show her a good time, but for the past two or so weeks, they were just like any ordinary hair care set.

I hope you got a kick out of that short dating story. Now for the real detailed review. 


Photo credit: Hask


As said above I was not quite impressed. It was not a wow factor, however I did like the idea of the haircare set. Charcoal "cleanses and clarifies." 
"Charcoal acts as a magnet that attracts and removes impurities. Leaves hair full of body and shine without stripping away moisture. Non-staining and safe for all hair colors - natural or dyed"
I did see a bit more shine with my hair and my hair wasn't dryer than it was before so I can say that it did do what it claims. 
Charcoal Purifying ShampooCleanses and ClarifiesFree of: sulfates, parabens, phthalates, gluten, drying alcohol and artificial colors
Introducing the best kept secret for hair…HASK Purifying Charcoal Shampoo. Charcoal, derived from coconut shells, combined with lemon and grapefruit oils, thoroughly cleanses and clarifies while helping to eliminate impurities from your hair and scalp. Gentle enough for daily use and safe for color-treated hair. We promise, the charcoal washes out! Ideal for all hair types. Directions: Apply generously to wet hair. Massage into a thick lather, rinse thoroughly, and repeat as often as you desire. For best results, use the HASK Charcoal Purifying collection. 
Charcoal Purifying ConditionerCleanses and ClarifiesFree of: sulfates, parabens, phthalates, gluten, drying alcohol and artificial colors
HASK Purifying Charcoal Conditioner is the perfect partner to the Charcoal Shampoo. Charcoal, derived from coconut shells, combined with citrus oil, conditions and locks in moisture while helping to absorb impurities, leaving hair silky, frizz-free and ready for styling. Gentle enough for daily use and safe for color-treated hair. We promise, the charcoal washes out! Ideal for all hair types. Directions: Shampoo hair and remove excess water. Apply generously, leave on for 1-2 minutes. Rinse thoroughly. For best results, use the HASK Charcoal Purifying collection.
Charcoal Purifying Deep ConditionerCleanses and ClarifiesFree of: sulfates, parabens, phthalates, gluten, drying alcohol and artificial colors
HASK Charcoal Purifying Deep Conditioner, is a super moisturizing, clarifying treatment that will nourish and soften all hair types, (including color-treated hair). Charcoal, derived from coconut shells, combined with citrus oil, absorbs impurities and helps restore hair to its natural radiance. We promise, the charcoal washes out!Directions: Apply a generous amount of Charcoal Purifying Deep Conditioner to clean, wet hair. Massage into hair focusing on damaged areas. Let penetrate for 10 minutes. Rinse well. Style as usual.

The shampoo&conditioner itself is a gray metallic color just like how you would expect charcoal to look. Don't let the color scare you, because as it says, it does not stain your hair. I can tell you from first hand experience - when I first got the products I had very light orangey blonde hair and it did not stain it at all, and right now after re-dying it to a darker color, it did not strip away any of the dye. Also, the scent is pleasant and citrusy but for those who are very sensitive, I wouldn't recommend sniffing too much (but please don't hesitate to try it out first). The shampoo gives a nice lather with minimal products so a little goes a long way. The bottles itself is hard to distinguish between the shampoo and conditioner which for me is a bleh because that's just an extra step. **I wear glasses/contacts so the days I don't have anything in my eyes, the world is just an annoying blur** 

Don't get me wrong, the product itself isn't bad, I will continue using it & I would recommend it to anyone just as a simple shampoo conditioner set but not for any other special reason.  

I will continue to use the set and I will definitely update if I see any other results in the long run.

The set also came with a hairbrush, which I was oddly impressed with. I don't usually brush my hair because I like the natural voluminous texture, but when I tried this brush out, my hair was very straight (as if I used a straighter). This may only be a personal experience, but the brush was rather nice and tamed my hair. The scent was horrid however, it had this bad plastic smell but other than that the size and all was pretty nice and great for traveling. 

Another thing it came with is a deep conditioner, which I wasn't able to try out yet, but seems promising and I love any hair mask! It does come in a packet, but there is A LOT of product in it. Probably can't use all of it in one use so I have to figure out how to save it without drying out. 

If you're interested in the products click here
For more information: 




xoxo


Disclaimer: This product was sent to me but words are 100% my own. I do not get paid when you click on the link so feel free to browse at your convenience. 

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